The calming of the internal tornado
Saturday, March 12, 2016
Disney's "Zootopia" ( or here in German speaking Europe "Zoomania" )
Friday, February 26, 2016
The night sees the tears fall
There has been so much emotional upheaval in these weeks, and the tears fall at night stealing my sleep, and the people i need the most to hold me tight aren't within my grasp. I struggle to find the words in daylight to express how much i am fighting to bring one foot in front of the other- everything hurts and internists are suggesting the very medication that has been helping me the last few years is causing me so much trouble. And that scares me so much.
There was so much i wanted to say at given times to S and didn't. And i am sure she was waiting to see- she knows me well enough to see when i am struggling - even when I put on the brave face. She is a good friend but i saw how much I depended upon her. I wanted to distance myself from this dependance, i also wanted to be the advice giver for once, i wanted so much to show far i have come- she knows i have come so far but she knows i have a lower tolerance to major stressors- and that last week was life stressor levels 1-5 in a week.
But i fear starting to cry and it never stopping and the rest of the work i diid for nought
To top it off the pain is crazy. But i can't explainto the nurses that i am having panicattacs on top of it all- my normal meds not helping me with sleep
Monday, January 18, 2016
On the countdown
Well it is less than a month until the d word- freedom- and there is so nuch to do including getting my ticket to go away for a few days! Yes. After the divorce I am taking a train trip to northern germany to visit with a good friend and just get away and have a change of scene. And hopefully breathe in the reality that part of my life is finished! And I could withstand all the attenpts my ex tries to bring me down and make me look crazier than before.
All the while I am setting my landing to be softer. While the fool tries to cry louder. And he will look like a fool in the end. He underestimated my strength. Yes I may need Psychiatrist, but who inmy position wouldn't. And hath no furylike that of a mother. Believe me this is harder than it looks - but if you have the emotional resources it is doable.
Just because i have an illness doesn't mean I don't know you are trying to screw me over again.
So he claims I went behind his back getting the social worker involved, but he went behind my back plenty, trying to prove Tobias doesn't need the extra help. Or standing over me and claiming I was a little pissed off at him at the moment- I was royally pissed that certain erasures of care was not met therefore I am needing to get a socialworker involved.
Then suddenly he is finally doing what I had been fighting for the kids to recieve - could it have something to do with my complaint to my lawyer after the court sitting? I ,complaint about the exhorbitant amount of money going to his mom for childcare while my kids were in second hand clothes and not being taken care of emotionally. In addition he is receiving money for the kids and they weren't seeing the Benefits of that money.
Thomas didn't realise what he was getting himself into being with me- I am not a docile stupid wife that he think he got. I won't tolerate what he dishes out and I will call him out on it.